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So, I might be dating somebody. It's kind of hard to tell.

So, I'm definitely not dating F. any longer. But he wants to stop by on his way East for something or other, for a couple of days.

Should I let him stay over? On the couch, I must stress.

At this precise moment I don't particularly want to see him but I might want to by the time it happens. And I'm wondering whether, if I were to explain this to the guy-I-might-be-dating, it would sound weird or suspicious.

He might not even need to know, actually, since we have only ever gotten together on Saturdays and F. plans to be here mid-week. But the-guy-I-might-be-dating and I have often talked mid-week for an hour or so.

So: I'm thinking I'll say no to F. What think ye?


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Apr. 8th, 2014 02:10 am (UTC)
Completely setting aside how guy-you-might-be-dating would feel about things: if you don't particularly want to see F. now, and you aren't sure whether you're going to want to see him when he's in town, you sure as hell don't want to still not be in the mood to see him and have him staying on your couch. So the safest plan of action is to ask him to stay elsewhere, and then see him only if you feel up to it.
Apr. 12th, 2014 08:03 pm (UTC)
Thanks for the advice: you cut right to the heart of the matter (as always).

As things have turned out, I'm now looking forward to seeing F. and hanging out, having been bruised by the guy-I'm-no-longer-dating not wanting to even stay friends. So I told F. yesterday that he could come & stay.
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